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Old 12-14-2010, 06:54 PM   #1  
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I'm making up a set of monogram cards to give to the hostess of a cookie exchange I'm attending this week. What's the norm--first or last initial?
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Either one is correct, but I always liked the last initial. I did google it and I came up with the following: Stamps and Embossers: This one is tricky! For a woman, if you are putting a single initial, you can use either the first or last initial but the trend leans more towards the first name initial. If the stamp is for a man or a couple, we suggest using the last name. Hope this helps.
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It seems that the younger women prefer the first initial. By younger I mean maybe under 40.
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Either one is correct, but I always liked the last initial. I did google it and I came up with the following: Stamps and Embossers: This one is tricky! For a woman, if you are putting a single initial, you can use either the first or last initial but the trend leans more towards the first name initial. If the stamp is for a man or a couple, we suggest using the last name. Hope this helps.
Thanks! I also tried to google it--your googling skills are better than mine! ;)
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Hope this helps... it's JustRite Stampers "Monogram Etiquette"

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For me personally, I would rather receive something with my first initial. Especially since I am married and don't have the same last name (or initial) I had for the first thirty years.

What a terrific hostess gift, by the way.
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Thanks. I'm using a single initial. It looks like it is just a matter of personal preference.
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I'd go for the first name initial - and I am over forty .
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I'm way under 40, but I would go for the first initial
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My personal preference would be if its a personal gift for a specific person, I would use the first initial. If it was a gift to a household (instead of the usual fruit cake), I would use the last initial.
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I always do the first initial too.
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If it's for a friend or someone close to me or I'm doing it as a casual type of card, I always use the first initial. I've only ever done them for women or for a married couple who have the same last name. Each time I go to do them, I ask myself the same question - is it the first or last initial?!
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My personal preference would be if its a personal gift for a specific person, I would use the first initial. If it was a gift to a household (instead of the usual fruit cake), I would use the last initial.
Your wording made me laugh: "to a household (instead of the usual fruit cake)" .

I somehow thought of giving to a household, or to the head fruitcake (a person)

That's because I'm the usual fruitcake in my household.:mrgreen:
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Your wording made me laugh: "to a household (instead of the usual fruit cake)" .

I somehow thought of giving to a household, or to the head fruitcake (a person)

That's because I'm the usual fruitcake in my household.:mrgreen:
I have quite a few "fruitcakes" in my family and I'm sure some of my relatives think I'm one of them.
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I am slightly over 40 and would definitely want my first initial. I use note cards for informal things such as mailing pictures, saying thanks, etc. Just seems more natural to me.
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I used monograms on our wedding invites, and I used first initials, D & S
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Many of my married friends have retained their maiden name so it gets more tricky. Therefore, I decided when I did these last year to use the first initial of the woman for her notecards.
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wow, I am sure Miss Manners would say Last Initial, bc I just made 5 sets with everyones' last initial except the girl who is under 30! Maybe I am old fashioned!! But I agree now that it is done, I do like my first initial bc it is from me,Jill, not Mrs. F!!!
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My preference is that if it's set of notecards for a woman and you are only using one initial to make it the first name. I think that's more personal than the last name.
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